You both need to go to a professional dealer and talk. An Amp rated at 500 Watts, may or may not be pushing 500 Watts. It depends if its peak output power, or RMS (Root Mean Square, or in laymens terms, average) Power.
Typically Amps are rated at peak power outputs for marketing purposes, but honestly power doesn't mean much when it comes to sound quality. The ratings will also change specifically per amplifier depending on input voltage and current characteristics. You could provide 14.4V to an spectacular amp, yet be using 12 guage power wire and be pushing very little power out of it.
Also, another sympton of dimming lights is a bad power loop. If you have a bad, rusted, or corroded connection on the ground clamp, or for that matter, any electrical connections within the loop it will starve the current flow to the amps and cause a dimming of lights.
Get the true ratings of your amps, take into account the capacity of all power wires and grounds, and power specs on your electrical system as it stands (battery and alternator). From there you can calculate whether you need a CAP (size, and or # of) or a new battery, or even both.
And for that matter, when an amp is rated in peak power, its rarely ever provides that type of output, and when it does, its for a fraction of a second on certain types of music only.