TC, personally, I think your car is great - not modified too much, and the mods you've done are tasteful and look good. I'd love to be able to afford a car like yours.
I think we are all waiting to see some pictures of BMwNut's 97 M3 and 2002 330i. I venture to say that neither of these cars actually exists. Furthermore, I'm going to go out on a limb here and hazard a guess that BMwNut and idontspeed are the same immature punk. Their posts are always within a few minutes of each other on every thread. I mean, check out this thread -
http://www.bmwboard.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=4764 He's having a conversation with himself. I mean, if you aren't going to provide any worthwhile comments and are just going to ridicule people for having a nice BMW, then get lost.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that this is a great community of very knowledgeable TRUE BMW owners - don't let some immature punk who thinks he's being cool turn you away from it.