I agree that the RMS website implies the M52 Stage I package makes 369 hp. at the crank. You go to the site, you go to products, you click on 328i or any other 2.8 liter M52 and you get exactly what you have described.
However, if you go to the same site, go to products and click on an E36 M3, or any other car with the 3.2 liter S52, you get the same numbers, 369 hp. Stage I, 411 hp. Stage II. I think that is a little bit misleading.
As noted in the link I posted above, if you go to another part of their site, they only claim 289 hp. at the crank for the Stage I M52 2.8, and don't even list numbers for a Stage II kit for the 2.8. Given that the M52 is down 50 hp. versus the S52 in stock form, (190 vs. 240) it is not surprising that it would make less hp. when blown.
Based on a 80 hp. difference in Stage I form, I think you can expect around an 80 hp. difference in Stage II form, which would put you around 331 crank hp. without NOS.
I wish you luck on your DME. Hopefully it will be ready to go out of the box, but I have heard many bad things about trying to tune OBDII engines running high boost. You may have to seek professional help. And I am just about certain you are going to need more rubber on the rears. Those 225s are just not up to the task of handling that kind of power at the wheels.