I have not refused anything. I am commenting you're statement of, "yo you guys are all wrong”, “he doesn't need to be told what to do”, “he certainly did not even ask for anyone's advice on the subject”, “Five of you jumped in and said DONT DO IT”, “just so you guys would get off his back”, The guy should be able to express his opinion without being jumped on by five regulars (several of which are mods) saying it will "ruin an M3.”, “what you guys did to mc909321”, “mc909321 sort of backed down and tried to tone down the situation (to your favor) so you guys would jump off his back”,. This is where I have/had a problem with your outlook of the situation.
I made my own statement in reference to his post. I cannot/will not/should not be held accountable for any other people’s posts. Your comment of, “but the five opinions as a whole (without any other side to the argument), is irrelevant in this situation, because first; I am not arguing about anything hence, there is no side to be taken on my part and second; the comment, “not a gang-up of "Don't put a wing on that M3!!"”, has no bearing on my statement since I didn’t “gang up” on anyone with my personal opinion/statement.
I would understand your last post better if I had indeed “ganged up”, “told him what to do”, “said don’t do it”, “was on his back”, “ said it would ruin his M3”, “jumped on his back”, and/or “actually had an argument”, etc… Otherwise, playing devils advocate is perfectly fine….
P.S. My first post I said, “Sweet”, which is the equivalent of “nice ride” however, if someone mentions a possible modification that I myself would not do I am inclined to give “MY” viewpoint as well. I am not here to stoke people’s egos and lie when my tastes are different from any said poster. Most of us here are adults and don’t need their hands held with, “wow that sounds like a great idea etc…” when in fact it doesn’t to me…
An opinion is just that an opinion. I know it is his car as you are forever reminding us of. You’re right he can do anything he wants with it. This never was in question, but my comment of what “I myself” would do to my “M3”, which is my car and I have just as much right to state my “opinion” of what I would and would not do to it….
Group hug….
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@ Emile...