I was thinking along the lines of a nice subtle spoiler, not necessarily a wing. They are two different things I assume. The spoiler was just a thought to make it more aggressive in the back and differentiate it, make it my own M3. I definately did not have in mind the "Fast and the Furious" types of wings. I agree that would not fit this type of a car.
The past M3s had a more aggressive spoiler, and I just wondered why less was more in this version, when it seems like everything else has been tweaked and touched up to look aggressive and different from the regular 3 series.
Anyway, thanks for the comments on my car, I love the car so far, its a monster when it wants to be, and a sophisticated car as well.